Dad's Top 20 Queer Tier Films - Ranked!

Countdown from #20 to #1.

This includes Dad's spoiler-free Mini-Preview!

Honorable Mention

Rocketman (2019), Director: Dexter Fletcher, rated R for language, nudity, drug use

The only way to tell his story is to live his fantasy.

Film ClipStarring: Taron Egerton, Jamie Bell, Richard Madden, Bryce Dallas Howard, Gemma Jones, Stephen Graham, Steven Mackintosh, Tom Bennett

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"You know, I am so sick of running away from who I am. There's nothing wrong with success or pleasure. In fact, why am I apologizing for it, mum?" - Elton John

Why watch this? This clever bio film jumps from reality to animated thought and back, and it is brilliant!

Plot Summary: Rocketman tells the incredible true story of Reginald Dwight's journey from a shy piano prodigy to the global superstar Elton John. The film chronicles his rise to fame alongside lyricist Bernie Taupin, while also exploring his personal struggles with relationships, identity, and addiction. Ultimately, it's a tale of self-discovery and finding happiness and acceptance by overcoming his inner demons.

  Dad's Preview: Elton John's songs were a huge part of the background music of my life. Bennie and the Jets at the Bulldog Inn for lunch in 7th grade. Honky Cat blasting on my cousins 8-track. Tiny Dancer in the college dorm. This movie, which Elton approved, details a hard life, where a lack of affection from his parents both motivated and devastated, causing an early life of rampant substance abuse. This film honestly, yet elegantly, presents Sir Elton's life. It also exposes some of the craziness that fueled his onstage antics.  


New Republic Pictures, Marv Films,
Rocket Pictures; Paramount Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #20     Top

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019), Director: Céline Sciamma, rated R for sexuality, nudity

"A singularly rich period piece"

Film ClipStarring: Noémie Merlant, Adèle Haenel, Luàna Bajrami, Valeria Golino, Christel Baras, Armande Boulanger

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"You were right. I am scared. Do all lovers feel they're inventing something? I know the gestures. I imagined it all, waiting for you." - Héloïse

Why watch this? At a time and place of beauty in art, forbidden love cannot be denied.

Plot Summary: In 18th-century France, a painter named Marianne is commissioned to secretly paint a wedding portrait of Héloïse, a young noblewoman reluctant to be married. Posing as a hired companion to study her subject by day, Marianne observes Héloïse, and the two develop an intimate connection as they share. As the painting progresses towards completion, the growing attraction between the women turns into a passionate, fleeting romance.

  Dad's Preview: Romances between two members of the same sex have long been taboo in society and the arts. That said, it has existed for centuries, whether you believe it or not. This film, with its incredible screenplay, is set on a breath-taking island in Brittany. It is a beautiful and tragic love story that sheds a small light on two women brought together is solitude to satisfy a mother's desire for a painting. What initially starts as a secret, eventually turns into a pathway for these two young women to see each other, and manifest who they really are... regardless of the obligations of their sex and situation. I am always moved by the pain these people have been forced to endure at the hands of religion and societal "norms". When we allow a person to be who they are, and love them, they will always flourish.    


Lillies Films, Arte, Hold Up Films;
Pyramide Films

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #19     Top

Boys Don't Cry (1999), Director: Kimberly Peirce, rated R for language, drug use, brutal rape scene

A true story about finding the courage to be yourself.

Film ClipStarring: Hilary Swank, Chloë Sevigny, Peter Sarsgaard, Brendan Sexton III, Alicia Goranson, Jeannetta Arnette, Matt McGrath

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"Shut up. That's your business. Look, I don't care if you're half monkey or half ape, I'm gettin' you out of here." - Lana

Why watch this? This is the true story of Brandon Teena, a trans-man who was murdered.

Plot Summary: Based on the true story, Brandon Teena, a trans man, living in rural Nebraska, navigates his life and identity while seeking love and acceptance in his community. He falls for Lana, a girl who wants to get away from her small town. When "friends" around them find out the truth, fear and bigotry surfaces and does what it often does - hate what it has been taught to hate, and destroy what it doesn't understand.

  Dad's Preview: This painful and shocking film introduced the world to Hilary Swank. Her performance elevates the film. When it comes to the trans community, I just don't understand why people can't just leave them alone. I'm talking to you - the bigots, Christians, Jews, Muslims, bullies, and anyone else who thinks they have the right to hurt fellow human beings. Because of that, the boy inside the man writing this review is heart-broken. But know, trans community, I stand with you.  


Independent Film Channel Prod., Killer Films,
Hart-Sharp Ent.; Fox Searchlight Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #18     Top

Moonlight (2016), Director: Barry Jenkins, rated R for frightening scenes, mild gore

This Is the Story of a Lifetime

Film ClipStarring: Trevante Rhodes, Naomie Harris, Mahershala Ali, André Holland, Ashton Sanders, Alex R. Hibbert, Jharrel Jerome

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"At some point, you gotta decide for yourself who you gonna be. Can't let nobody make that decision for you." – Juan

Why watch this? I'm white and privileged. Just a little understanding can help.

Plot Summary: This deeply powerful story chronicles three stages in a boy's life on the bitter hard streets around Miami during the crack epidemic. We see him in childhood, enduring constant bullying, as he is called "faggot". He's lucky that Juan, a drug dealer, takes him in and serves as a mentor. As a teen, when he finally fights back, he's sent to prison, and there becomes a tough young adult.

  Dad's Preview:  A theme throughout is the boy's sexuality. He is gay, but he can never display that on the streets. So he hides it, unable to be his honest self. It will make some folks squirm, but I feel this is another step in helping us understand that we all have different human experiences. In the end, if you strip away our environment and experiences, we are all still humans, and thus all part of the collective humanity.  


Plan B Entertainment, Pastel Prod.; A24

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #17     Top

The Whale (2022), Director: Darren Aronofsky, rated R for language, sexual content

So much to give, with so few to receive it.

Film ClipStarring: Brendan Fraser, Sadie Sink, Hong Chau, Ty Simpkins, Samantha Morton, Sathya Sridharan

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"These assignments - they don't matter. This course doesn't matter. College doesn't matter. These amazing, honest things you wrote - they matter." - Charlie, to students in his online college course.

Why watch this? Sometimes, hidden deep within pain, you find love, hope and selflessness.

Plot Summary: Charlie is a reclusive and severely obese English teacher, who wants to do two things - be a great teacher and reconnect with his estranged teenage daughter, Ellie. Confined to his home and battling declining health, Charlie seeks to make amends with Ellie before he runs out of time.

  Dad's Preview: This film hit theaters and there was immediate buzz about Brendan Fraser's performance. It IS amazing and deserves the Oscar he received. Sadie Sink and Hong Chau are equally compelling. This film is painful and often hard to watch, then, out of nowhere, BAM! It inspires you to forgive people; to love unconditionally; to even reevaluate your own life and perhaps fix broken relationships... while you still have time.  


Protozoa Pictures; A24

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #16     Top

Bohemian Rhapsody (2018), Director: Bryan Singer, rated PG-13 for adult situations

The only thing more extraordinary than their music is his story

Film ClipStarring: Rami Malek, Lucy Boynton, Gwilym Lee, Ben Hardy, Joe Mazzello, Aidan Gillen, Tom Hollander, Mike Myers

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"I'm going to be what I was born to be: a performer that gives the people what they want: a touch of the heavens! Freddie f'ing Mercury." - Freddie

Why watch this? Queen was an integral part of my youth. This is their story.

Plot Summary: This rock and roll epoch follows Freddie Mercury and the legendary rock band Queen. It chronicles their rise to fame, from the band's formation to their iconic performance at Live Aid in 1985. Along the way we also explore Mercury's personal struggles with his identity, relationships and drug use, amidst their unparalleled success.

  Dad's Preview: In high school Queen rocked us like no other band. We Will Rock You. Sheer Heart Attack. Another One Bites the Dust. We had no idea that Freddie was gay. When I found out - it was the first time I ever thought: "Wow. If a gay man can rock me like that, then we must have a lot in common." This is a splendid filmography, and I really feel Freddie would approve, as did his former band-mates. This film takes us through the band's formation, its hard-rocking success, Freddie's battle with his sexuality and AIDS, and finally Queen's triumph at the massive Live Aid event in England. I am simultaneously saddened and inspired by Freddie's bright shining life, as perfectly portrayed by Rami Malek. You, my friend, are a Champion.  


Regency Ent., GK Films, Queen Films;
20th Century Fox

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #15     Top

Monster (2003), Director: Patty Jenkins, rated R for language, nudity, violence

The first female serial killer of America

Film ClipStarring: Charlize Theron, Christina Ricci, Bruce Dern, Lee Tergesen, Annie Corley, Pruitt Taylor Vince, Marco St. John, Marc Macaulay

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"So I made a deal. I said God I gotta spend this 5 bucks but when it's gone so am I, so, if you got something for me in this life you better bring it on, and there she was." – Aileen Wuornos

Why watch this? Charlize Theron proves that she can method act. Wow!

Plot Summary: Based on the true story of Aileen Wuornos, the film explores the life of a prostitute who becomes a serial killer. After years of abuse and hardship, Aileen finds love with Selby, a young woman who offers her a glimpse of hope and companionship. However, Aileen struggles to maintain a legitimate life, and when confronted with violence from a client, she makes a desperate decision that spirals into a series of murders.
 
  Dad's Preview: In one of filmdom's great actress transformations, Theron literally becomes Aileen Wuornos - the poor, rough, damaged prostitute who murdered several of her male clients in the late '80s. This film is painful to watch as her past always resurfaces to block any attempt she makes to go straight. Things predictably spiral downward. This film won numerous awards including Theron's well-deserved Oscar for Best Actress.  


Media 8 Ent., DEJ Prod., Denver & Delilah Films,
VIP Medienfonds, K/W Productions;
Newmarket Films

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #14     Top

Cloud Atlas (1981), Directors: Lana Wachowski, Lilly Wachowski, Tom Tykwer, Rated R for language, violence, sexuality, nudity, some drug use 

Everything Is Connected

Film ClipStarring: Tom Hanks, Halle Berry, Jim Broadbent, Jim Sturgess, Ben Whishaw, Doona Bae, Hugo Weaving, Hugh Grant, Susan Sarandon, Keith David, James D'Arcy, David Gyasi

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"Our lives and our choices, like quantum trajectories, are understood moment to moment. At each point of intersection, each encounter suggests a new potential direction." - Isaac Sachs

Why watch this? This is a fantastic exploration of life - past, present and future, all connected - and how choices matter.

Plot Summary: This ambitious, time-spanning tale is crammed to the brim with filmdom's top talent, cutting-edge effects and race-altering make-up. Strap on your cranial seatbelts to explore six storylines, some in the past, some in possible futures. Most actors recur in each of the stories and reincarnation is apparent. Most characters, at their core, either evil or good, however, the main characters (Hanks, Berry and Broadbent) are on a journey, progressing. They begin as unlikable beings, displaying cowardice, callousness, even homicidal tendencies. But their paths, over the eras, are heading to a cosmic redemption, based on their growth, love and choices made. Is this not what we all face in real life?

  Dad's Preview: The Wachowskis (The Matrix) and Tom Tykwer have adapted this incredible story into a film you will need to see more than once to fully appreciate. Cloud Atlas runs a little long at over two hours, and it certainly divided critics and fans. I am all-in for this creative, thought-provoking, oddly wonderful, hidden gem. Turn your head upward to the clouds, give it a chance, and you may be profoundly impacted.  


Cloud Atlas Prod., X Filme Creative Pool,
Anarchos Productions; Warner Bros.

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #13     Top

Some Like It Hot (1959), Director: Billy Wilder, rated Approved

The MOST comedy ever made! The BIGGEST comedy ever made!
The HOTTEST comedy ever made!

Film ClipStarring: Marilyn Monroe, Tony Curtis, Lack Lemmon, George Raft, pat O'Brien, Joe E. Brown, Nehemiah Persoff, Joan Shawlee, Billy Gray, George E. Stone, Dave Barry, Mike Mazurki

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"Will you look at that! Look how she moves! It's like Jell-O on springs. Must have some sort of built-in motor or something. I tell you, it's a whole different sex!" - Jerry after Sugar strides by

Why watch this? Marilyn. Monroe.

Plot Summary: Two male musicians witness a mob hit and, to escape the gangsters, disguise themselves as women and join an all-female band heading to Florida. While maintaining their false identities, one falls for the band's beautiful singer, Sugar, while the other is pursued by a millionaire. Their attempts to evade the mobsters and navigate these romantic complications lead to a series of comedic and often precarious situations.

  Dad's Preview: It really wasn't fair to Tony Curtis and Jack Lemmon. Here they give incredible performances, acting as male and female characters (Lemmon was nominated for Best Actor, Curtis should have been). They're incredibly funny as two cross-dressing mob band members on the sly. But neither could hold a candle to Marilyn. She's captivating. She sings. She's funny. She's sexy - they never had a chance. In this well-paced, bouncy joyride, I found myself smiling a lot and laughing often. It sits on a ton of Best Of All Time film lists, usually at the top. It certainly upped the sexuality ante for films going forward. This is a delightful classic has that left its mark on cinema.  


Billy Wilder, Mirisch Co.; United Artists

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #12      Top

Everything Everywhere All at Once (2022), Directors: Daniel Kwan, Daniel Scheinert, rated R for some language, adult themes, violence

A Film from Daniels

Film ClipStarring: Michelle Yeoh, Stephanie Hsu, Jamie Lee Curtis, Ke Huy Quan, James Hong, Tallie Medel, Jenny Slate, Harry Shum Jr., Biff Wiff, Sunita Mani, Brian Le

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"Every rejection, every disappointment has led you here to this moment." - Waymond Wang

Why watch this? There are mind-trip films - then there is this chaotic eye-candy.

Plot Summary: This mind-bending story centers on Evelyn Wang, a laundromat owner who feels her life has been filled with missed opportunities and regrets. During a stressful IRS audit, she discovers, with help from her husband, the existence of the multi-verse. To her amazement, she can access the memories, skills, and experiences of her alternative selves across countless universes. Evelyn is tasked with using these newfound abilities to fight against a powerful being threatening to destroy the multiverse, while also navigating complex family relationships, particularly with her daughter, Joy.

  Dad's Preview: I read about this film, and purchased the Blu-ray disc before seeing it. I was THAT sure a) it would be great, and b) I would love it. Both were correct. It's unlike any film I have ever seen, anywhere, anytime. It was nominated for 11 Oscars, winning 7 including Best Picture, Director, Actress (Yeoh), Supporting Actor (Quan), Supporting Actress (Curtis), Original Screenplay and Editing. It is one hell of a mind-trip.  


IAC Films, Gozie AGBO, Year of the Rat,
Ley Line Ent.; A24

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #11      Top

The Imitation Game (2014), Director: Morten Tyldum, rated PG-13

The True Enigma Was the Man Who Cracked The Code

Film ClipStarring: Benedict Cumberbatch, Keira Knightley, Matthew Goode, Rory Kinnear, Charles Dance, Mark Strong, Matthew Beard

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"Sometimes it's the very people who no one imagines anything of who do the things no one can imagine." – Christopher Morcom

Why watch this? This engrossing story is based on the life of brilliant cryptographer Alan Turing.

Plot Summary: Mathematician Alan Turing and his team of codebreakers work for Britain's top-secret Government Code and Cypher School at Bletchley Park during World War II. Facing the seemingly unbreakable Nazi Enigma machine, Turing attempts to build a device that can decipher its messages.

  Dad's Preview: Alan Turing was a genius. He was also gay in England in the 1930's. This results in a painful personal life, yet professionally he was asked to work on breaking the most famous code in history: Germany's Enigma Code. Cumberbatch is remarkable in this must-see historical drama. The real Alan Turing was mercilessly persecuted and prosecuted by the British government for his "illegal" sexual orientation. He took his own life at age 41.  


Black Bear Pictures, Bristol Automotive
Orange Corp.; The Weinstein Co.

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #10      Top

Green Book (2018), Director: Peter Farrelly, rated PG-13 for bigotry, violence

Inspired by a True Friendship

Film ClipStarring: Viggo Mortensen, Mahershala Ali, Linda Cardellini, Sebastian Maniscalco, Dimiter D. Marinov, Mike Hatton, P.J. Byrne, Von Lewis

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"So if I'm not black enough and if I'm not white enough, and not man enough, then tell me, Tony, what am I?" - Dr. Don Shirley

Why watch this? In a country divided by race, we just need to rub elbows to find our common ground.

Plot Summary: In 1962, a working-class Italian-American bouncer named Tony "Lip" Vallelonga is hired to drive renowned African-American classical pianist Don Shirley on a concert tour through the Deep South. Facing widespread racial segregation and prejudice, they must rely on "The Negro Motorist Green Book" to navigate safe havens for Black travelers. Despite their vastly different backgrounds and personalities, the two men form an unlikely bond and friendship as they confront adversity and learn from each other during their journey.

  Dad's Preview:  This film was based on a true story, and won the Oscars for Best Picture and Supporting Actor (Mahersala Ali). This thoroughly enjoyable film held my attention for every single second. The two lead characters could not be more different, yet their journey together carries the film forward to where we hope it goes. In the end, both men emerge with a larger world-view and a lot more empathy.  


Participant Media, DreamWorks Pics, Innisfee Pics,
Cinetic Media, Alibaba Pics; Universal Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #9      Top

The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012), Director: Stephen Chbosky, rated PG-13

We accept the love we think we deserve.

Film ClipStarring: Logan Lerman, Emma Watson, Ezra Miller, Mae Whitman, Kate Walsh, Dylan McDermott, Joan Cusack, Paul Rudd

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love." - Samantha "Sam" Button

Why watch this? It is an interesting, relevant, coming-of-age story that most of use can relate to.

Plot Summary: The film follows un-extraordinary Charlie, a freshman high school student. He suffers from clinical depression and is therefore incredibly shy. He meets two seniors, Patrick (an extremely animated and rebellious gay boy) and his step-sister Samantha "Sam" (a quite, awkward and adorable girl who is in a steady relationship). Patrick and Sam decide it's a good idea to bring Charlie into their small group of social outcasts; sorta take him under their wings. The brainy Patrick quickly develops a crush on Sam, and he helps her study to improve her SAT score. Then normal high school stuff occurs and starts to un-repress Charlie's mental issues.

  Dad's Preview: About ten minutes into this film, I felt it grab me. It felt fresh, creative and from the heart. This often-poignant story centers on the over-blown concepts of being "cool", and the ever-present pressures of high school. Why can't kids just be who they are? It has a lot to do with parents who demand that their kids stand out, make A's, be exceptional. How will mediocre get the scholarship or big job? This film begs to differ. Life is wonderful because of these "wallflowers" exist, filling the spaces and giving many delightful misfits a place to feel safe... and even loved.  


Mr. Mudd Productions; Summit Ent. thru
Lionsgate

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #8      Top

The Children's Hour (1961), Director: William Wyler, Rated Approved

One simple lie destroyed everything they had.

Film ClipStarring: Audrey Hepburn, Shirley MacLaine, James Garner, Miriam Hopkins, Fay Bainter, Karen Balkin, Veronica Cartwright, Mimi Gibson, William Mims, Sallie Brophy

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"You've always had a jealous, possessive nature even as a child. If you had a friend, you'd be upset if she liked anybody else. And that's what's happening now! And it's unnatural." - Mrs. Lily Mortar

Why watch this?  A child's lie can have devastating consequences, as we shall see.

Plot Summary: This drama centers on two women, Karen Wright and Martha Dobie, who run a boarding school for girls. When a problematic student, Mary Tilford, fabricates a lie about the two teachers, the resulting scandal threatens to devastate their lives and careers.

  Dad's Preview: This painful drama is really a two-sided coin. On one, we have two lifelong friends who run an all-girls boarding house. Karen is engaged to a handsome doctor. Martha is still single. When a particularly devious girl, Mary, is caught lying, she decided to tell her wealthy grandmother several lies about Karen and Martha's relationship. This goes public and immediately destroys the business because people, believing idle gossip, don't want their children being schooled by "those women". The second side exposes the nature of homosexuality at that time period. It was kept quiet and was unfairly judged. However, it was (and still is) REAL. For someone gay, the concealment of this fact, this personal trait of your very being, often had devastating effects on those unlucky enough to exist in America during that era. This story was originally penned by Lillian Hellman, and here is brought to life by the amazing director William Wyler (The Best Years of our Lives, Roman Holiday, Ben-Hur). Perhaps this film will help some folks see humanity in all people.  


William Wyler, The Mirisch Co.; United Artists

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #7      Top

Sling Blade (1996), Director: Billy Bob Thornton, rated R  for language, violence

A Simple Man... A Difficult Choice.

Film ClipStarring: Billy Bob Thornton, Lucas Black, Dwight Yoakam, John Ritter, Natalie Canerday, James Hampton, Robert Duvall, Brent Briscoe

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 50 #30 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Sling Blade

"Some folks call it a sling blade, I call it a Kaiser blade." - Karl Childers

Why watch this? Thornton's first film is tender, simple, and brilliant on every level.

Plot Summary: Karl Childers is a man with an intellectual disability who is released from a psychiatric hospital after spending decades institutionalized for a childhood murder. He returns to his childhood town in Arkansas and befriends a young boy named Frank, forming an unexpected bond as Karl works as a mechanic. However, Frank's home life is troubled by his mother's abusive boyfriend, Doyle.
 
  Dad's Preview: This film rings so true that the audience has no choice but to believe it's based on real people. Sling Blade was Billy Bob Thornton's personal creation: he wrote the story, directed the film and stars as Karl. Thornton's immersion into the simpleton character is legendary (and oft impersonated by me and way too many TikTokers). There are some intense moments, but at its heart, this movie has a sweetness to it. It's an achievement within its own simplicity. John Ritter and Dwight Yoakam deliver incredible supporting performances, as well.   


The Shooting Gallery; Miramax Films

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #6      Top

As Good as It Gets (1994), Director: James L. Brooks, rated PG-13 for language

Brace yourself for Melvin.

Film ClipStarring: Jack Nicholson, Helen Hunt, Greg Kinnear, Cuba Gooding Jr., Skeet Ulrich, Shirley Knight, Yeardley Smith, Lupe Ontiveros, Jill the Dog

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"When you first entered the restaurant, I thought you were handsome... and then, of course, you spoke." - Carol

Why watch this? The transformation of Nicholson's character is unbelievable.

Plot Summary: Meet Melvin Udall, a misanthropic romantic novelist with severe obsessive-compulsive disorder. His life is disrupted when he's forced to care for his gay neighbor Simon's dog after Simon is brutally beaten and hospitalized. Melvin also develops an unexpected connection with Carol, a kind waitress at his usual diner who is struggling with her son's illness.

  Dad's Preview: How the hell does Jack Nicholson do it? He takes a character, who is an completely unlikable, neurotic chauvinist; and by the movie's end... you love him! This film centers on the acting chops of Nicholson and Hunt who won both Academy and Golden Globe awards for Best Actor/Actress. Greg Kinnear also stands out as a gay artist having a bad run of luck. It's a pleasure to watch these pros make movie magic with a really superb script.  


TriStar Pictures, Gracie Films;
Sony Pictures Releasing

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #5      Top

Little Miss Sunshine (2006), Directors: Jonathan Dayton, Valerie Faris, rated R for language, adult topics

A family on the verge of a breakdown

Film ClipStarring: Greg Kinnear, Steve Carell, Toni Collette, Paul Dano, Abigail Breslin, Alan Arkin, Bryan Cranston, Beth Grant

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 50 #33 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Little Miss Sunshine

"I'd like to dedicate this to my grandpa, who showed me these moves." - Olive Hoover

Why watch this? Imagine the family road trip from hell. Then multiply it by 100.

Plot Summary: The Hoover family embarks on a chaotic cross-country road trip to get their young daughter, Olive, to the Little Miss Sunshine beauty pageant in California. Along the way, the eccentric family faces a series of setbacks and personal struggles that force them to re-evaluate their notions of success and happiness. The journey culminates in Olive's unconventional performance at the pageant.

  Dad's Preview: This film is a superb ode to the wonderfulness that resides in families that are blessed to be 'non-normal'. I am proud to say this fits my family. Each family member is thoroughly fleshed out, and it's pretty clear that every one of them (except sweet tween Olive) is on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Together they load up their yellow VW van to take Olive to compete in the Little Miss Sunshine beauty pageant. You will laugh until you cry during this dysfunction-laden road trip. It's pure genius - mostly because it reminds us our own family dynamics.  


Big Beach Films, Bona Fide Prod., Third
Gear Prod.; Fox Searchlight Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #4      Top

The Full Monty (1997), Director: Peter Catteneo, rated R for some nudity, language

The year's most revealing comedy.

Film ClipStarring: Robert Carlyle, Tom Wilkinson, Mark Addy, William Snape, Paul Barber, Hugo Speer, Lesley Sharp, Emily Woof

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 100 #95 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of The Full Monty

"Anti-wrinkle cream there may be, but anti-fat-bastard cream there is not." - Dave

Why watch this? I have never loved a film more than this one I fully expected to hate.

Plot Summary: When a group of unemployed steelworkers in Sheffield are inspired by a touring male striptease act, they decide to form their own all-male stripping troupe to make some quick cash. Despite lacking traditional physiques and facing personal insecurities, the men commit to performing a "full monty," meaning completely nude, one time only to solve their financial troubles and regain their self-respect.

  Dad's Preview: Some of the greatest comedies are spawned from the most unlikeliest of subjects. By all accounts, unemployed British men should not be funny, yet it is. I mean, we got garden gnomes, folks. This is a huge tribute to some fine direction, and a solid script. There are also great performances through-out, leads to supporting cast. It truly is a dream ensemble. There are laughs throughout, and, trust me, the film's fully-gratifying ending will be one you won't soon forget.  


Redwave Films, Channel Four Films;
Fox Searchlight Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #3     Top

Rope (1948), Director: Alfred Hitchcock, rated PG

It's his most nerve-stretching thriller!

Film ClipStarring: James Stewart, John Dall, Farley Granger, Joan Chandler, Sir Cedric Hardwicke, Constance Collier, Kenneth Lawrence, Edith Evanson

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 100 #94 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Rope

"I've always wished for more artistic talent. Well, murder can be an art, too. The power to kill can be just as satisfying as the power to create." - Brandon Shaw

Why watch this? This is my favorite Hitchcock film. It's lean and twisted.

Plot Summary: Two intellectual young men, Brandon and Phillip, murder a former classmate as an act to prove their supposed superiority. They then host a dinner party, with the victim's body hidden in a chest within the same room, serving as a macabre challenge to mental acuity. As the evening unfolds, their former professor, Rupert, becomes increasingly suspicious at their odd behavior.

  Dad's Preview: There is just something about this film that I love. Perhaps it is the devious plot by two privileged men who tempt fate out of boredom. Perhaps it is James Stewart's performance as their old college professor who immediately senses something is amiss. Perhaps it is Hitchcock's unique techniques, where he uses long takes, which in turn gives the viewer a sense of a continuous take. It was not popular upon release, but this is a gripping, bold, interesting, even controversial film.  


Transatlantic Pictures; Warner Bros.

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #2      Top

Philadelphia (1993), Director: Jonathan Demme, rated PG

No one would take on his case... until one man was willing to take on the system.

Film ClipStarring: Denzel Washington, Tom Hanks, Jason Robarbs, Mary Steenburgen, Antonio Banderas, Joanne Woodward

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 50 #27 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Philadelphia

"Every now and again - not often, but occasionally - you get to be a part of justice being done. That really is quite a thrill when that happens." - Andrew Beckett

Why watch this? ... are all men created equal? Apparently not all men.

Plot Summary: An ambitious lawyer Andrew Beckett is fired from his prestigious law firm after his HIV-positive status and homosexuality are discovered, prompting him to sue for wrongful termination. He hires Joe Miller, a homophobic personal injury lawyer, as his only willing advocate, and together they fight his former employers in a landmark discrimination case that challenges prejudice and reveals uncomfortable truths.

  Dad's Preview: I've always been a fan of courtroom dramas. Philadelphia is that, and much more. An attorney, Andrew Beckett, is fired from a prestigious firm. The stated reason? - bad performance. The real reason: He is a gay man with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS). Andrew hires Joe Miller, one of the few lawyers willing to take his case. Together they take on the firm's corrupt practices, fueled by society's fear and hatred towards the community most impacted by the deadly disease. This amazing film should serve as a gut-punch regarding false fears and bigotry. Please have the courage to watch it.  


Clinica Estetico Prod.; TriStar Pictures

Top 20 Queer Tier Films #1      Top

Brokeback Mountain (2005), Director: Ang Lee, rated R for language, adult situations

Love Is A Force Of Nature

Film ClipStarring: Heath Ledger, Jake Gyllenhaal, Linda Cardellini, Anna Faris, Anne Hathaway, Michelle Williams, Randy Quaid, Linda Cardellini

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"The bottom line is...we're around each other and...this thing grabs hold of us again...in the wrong place...in the wrong time...we're dead." - Ennis Del Mar

Why watch this? This is a love story, set in a place where folks don't tolerate anybody "different".

Plot Summary: In 1963, two out-of-work cowboys, Jack and Ennis, hire on working sheep in the Wyoming wilderness. Unexpectedly, the two become intimate, something they agree was a "one time deal". They return to their lives, both marrying and having kids. Over the next ten years, however, their forbidden relationship grows as they meet for annual fishing trips.

  Dad's Preview:  This complex, unconventional love story painfully illustrates the jagged edge these rugged men had to walk if they dared show their true feelings. Ledger and Gyllenhaal deliver incredible performances under Ang Lee's sensitive direction. The film won three Oscars, including Best Director and Best Score.  


River Road Entertainment; Focus Features